By Tyler Moss It's funny how we guys hate the idea of approaching a woman. If you think about, most of us will do things in our life that are much more dangerous then simply approach a woman. Things like sky diving or even driving a car can be dangerous. The big question is "What can I do about it?" Let's see what we can do.
Focus On Her Fears Instead Of Yours The biggest problem with fears is that we always focus on our own. This is the part that really gets to us. Just by taking one quick glance at a beautiful woman are minds will try and protect us from the fear of approaching her. - She is really hot - She is too hot for me - She probably has a boyfriend - She won't like me - I'm not good enough for her - She is probably really mean - I'm not her type And on and on it goes. You answered all these questions yourself and you haven't even spoken to her yet. These are your beliefs and they are true because you believe in them. It doesn't mean she believes in them, but she will once she meets you. She can't help not believe these things, because she will be able to tell that you don't think your good enough for her. So here is what I like to do instead. I like to focus on her fears. You have to remember that under all that beauty is a real woman with real problems. She has fears too. What are they? - She fears guys wanting to use her for sex - She fears that a guy might try and rape her - She fears that a guy wont be able to look past her looks to see who she really is - She is afraid of growing old and lonely - She is afraid she will never meet a guy who can make her feel good about herself - She feels stressed because she thinks that if she doesn't look good no one will like her. Just like you she probably has many more fears. The next time you see a beautiful woman I want you to stop and think about her fears. What scares her and what does she ache for? This will put you in a much better state of mind then the nervous wreck you have been in. Tyler Moss is what he calls a "charming man". He teaches men how to meet, attract, and flirt with women. To learn how to attract women with your natural charm and without tricks signup for the free charming man newsletter at http://www.becomeacharmingman.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Tyler_Moss http://EzineArticles.com/?How-to-End-Your-Fear-of-Approaching-Women&id=540672 personal loans for home improvemtens and bad credit
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